As a photographer, I get a ton of inquiries for potential weddings, some I really want and I don't get. Some I don't feel like I am a good fit for and I refer them to someone who is. And some book me and I accept them because we are a good fit. There are so many photographers just in Wisconsin and so many couples I feel like I am swimming in an ocean of fish trying to find my Nemo (forgive me I have 2 toddlers). Luckily I do every time. I hear a lot of wedding horror stories about couples wanting hair fixed, chins photoshopped, something cropped, they don't like how their dress looks, they want their skin smoothed, all these changes to their wedding photos. Those photos are memories, little imperfect memories of one of the biggest days of your life. What's to fix? I don't fix. I believe you should start by choosing the photographer that you trust and want to work with. Someone's work you follow and philosophy you believe in. I'm so lucky to find couples who share this philosophy with me and enjoy their photos just as they are.